{"id":248,"date":"2009-12-15T08:16:00","date_gmt":"2009-12-15T15:16:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/?p=248"},"modified":"2009-12-15T08:16:00","modified_gmt":"2009-12-15T15:16:00","slug":"bear-with-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/?p=248","title":{"rendered":"Bear With Me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dearest Readers,<\/p>\n<p>When I was a child I had a Steiff Teddy Bear. I didn&#8217;t know it was a Steiff, which is a high-quality, German brand of plush toys, until much later in life when it would have meant something to me to own so swish a toy. As a girl, however, it was simply a bear that I loved.<\/p>\n<p>I also had a tiny little bear named Baby Growl-y. I don&#8217;t even know how to spell it. Did I come up with the name?  My mother would know. <\/p>\n<p>When I got a little older, not yet old enough to think teddy bears were un-cool, still on that threshold between childhood and youth, I acquired Charles, a giant, white teddy bear.<\/p>\n<p>Charles was a Christmas present. I remember sneaking downstairs in the early morning before anyone else was awake to have a sneak-peek at the presents. I saw the bear, unwrapped, sitting up, alert and ready for love. I knew he couldn&#8217;t possibly be for me. I was too old. Surely he was for one of my younger sisters. Oh, heartbreak! <\/p>\n<p>Later, when the whole family was gathered around the tree to open presents and my father picked up that bear and said my name, I leapt for joy and hugged his softness to my little budding body. He was mine! And Charles seemed an appropriate name for he was a very proper bear.<\/p>\n<p>For some reason my mother continued to buy me bears right up until a few short years ago when I had to tell her to stop. She knows I have a love of bears, all bears, one might even say the Bear is my Totem Animal, but I&#8217;ve outgrown the stuffed bear, no matter how adorable. <\/p>\n<p>Or have I?<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday, because of some healing work I&#8217;ve been doing, I felt a deep connection to the little girl that I was all those years ago. That small child who was innocent and free, loving and hopeful. The girl I was before the harshness of the world made itself known to me. The girl who didn&#8217;t yet know shame. <\/p>\n<p>That little girl could receive the tender hugs of a teddy bear. She needed them.<\/p>\n<p>So, for her, I bought a gift. A giant, pink, plush teddy pig. Or would it be a piggy bear? Either way, it&#8217;s darn cute. And very huggable. Just what a little girl needs at Christmas time.<\/p>\n<p>Inspiring Message of the Day: We need hugs. We need tenderness. Sometimes we can receive these things from people but other times we need the soft and all-embracing love of a child&#8217;s toy to give us that comfort.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dearest Readers, When I was a child I had a Steiff Teddy Bear. I didn&#8217;t know it was a Steiff, which is a high-quality, German brand of plush toys, until much later in life when it would have meant something to me to own so swish a toy. As a girl, however, it was simply&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,5,82],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-248","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-inspiration","category-motivation","category-teddy-bear-love"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/248","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=248"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/248\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=248"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=248"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=248"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}