{"id":275,"date":"2010-01-16T07:44:00","date_gmt":"2010-01-16T14:44:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/?p=275"},"modified":"2010-01-16T07:44:00","modified_gmt":"2010-01-16T14:44:00","slug":"crash-the-pity-party","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/?p=275","title":{"rendered":"Crash the Pity Party"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dearest Readers,<\/p>\n<p>My world has become very small in the last week because I&#8217;ve been in a recording studio every day co-producing an anthem for the Big O project. I&#8217;ve heard clips of news from the outside world but have not been really engaged in what&#8217;s happening. <\/p>\n<p>I knew there&#8217;d been an earthquake in Haiti but it took reading my friend Leanne Coppen&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.en.chatelaine.com\/category\/living-with-breast-cancer\/\"><b>Living with Breast Cancer<\/b><\/a> blog to actually Google and follow the story.<\/p>\n<p>So I just learned that 3 million out of Haiti&#8217;s 10 million people are right now without access to basic amenities like food, water, shelter and electricity. <i>Three million<\/i>. That&#8217;s about the size of Toronto proper. Can you imagine that entire city&#8217;s core in such a state?<\/p>\n<p>How can I, on the other side of the world, living my tiny little life, doing my great big art project, respond to this in any kind of meaningful way? <\/p>\n<p>Ignoring it is one reaction. &#8220;Oh, I can&#8217;t do anything about it so, oh well.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Guilt is another. &#8220;Well, I can <i>feel<\/i> bad for what I have, at least.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I can send money. &#8220;It&#8217;s the least I can do.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Or I can practice gratitude and rejoice in my life today. I&#8217;m <i>alive<\/i>. I get to live another day. I can take that in, deeply, and not take it for granted like I do most days. I can turn today into the fullest possible celebration of living by being thankful.<\/p>\n<p>If you read Leanne&#8217;s post you&#8217;ll see that she has found a way to be grateful in the face of devastating circumstances. She crashes her own pity party by looking at what she <i>has<\/i>, not what she has not. This is the most inspiring message of all, anytime, anywhere. <\/p>\n<p>Leanne&#8217;s post reminded me that I have to count my blessings. When my life becomes so insular that all I&#8217;m thinking about is <i>my<\/i> stuff, I can&#8217;t see the forest for the trees. I&#8217;ve become <i>self<\/i>-centred. I am blind to all that I have been given and I often focus on what&#8217;s wrong rather that what is right.<\/p>\n<p>I need to be reminded pretty much constantly to remove myself from the centre of the Universe, to step back and look at the whole picture, and remember that I am a part of the whole but not the whole part. <\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s pretty easy to practice gratitude when I&#8217;ve got my basic amenities covered and I don&#8217;t have stage four breast cancer. What about when the quake\/cancer hits, when the rubble\/chemo buries everything? When we are stripped of all that we hold dear? For what then can we be thankful? Leanne reminds us that it&#8217;s still possible to find something and rejoice in it.<\/p>\n<p>Rough count of blessings? About 3 million.<\/p>\n<p>Inspiring Message of the Day: My way of giving back is to be grateful. To enjoy this day and live it, fully, as thought it were my last.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dearest Readers, My world has become very small in the last week because I&#8217;ve been in a recording studio every day co-producing an anthem for the Big O project. I&#8217;ve heard clips of news from the outside world but have not been really engaged in what&#8217;s happening. 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