{"id":393,"date":"2010-05-08T10:44:31","date_gmt":"2010-05-08T17:44:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/?p=393"},"modified":"2010-05-08T11:07:23","modified_gmt":"2010-05-08T18:07:23","slug":"the-richness-of-being","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/?p=393","title":{"rendered":"The Richness of Being"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dearest Readers,<\/p>\n<p>How exquisite and recondite is Life that we can be weeping in grief one moment and laughing our guts out the next?<\/p>\n<p>As most of you know I have been blogging of late about the death of my friend <a href=\"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/?p=364\">Leanne Coppen<\/a>. Before she died, when her friends and family were still convinced that she was going to beat the cancer, I sent an email to one of Leanne&#8217;s friends who had taken on the responsibility of gathering items for a silent auction to raise money for Leanne&#8217;s experimental treatment in Detroit.<\/p>\n<p>The gift I had to offer was an hour of Inspiring Coaching. The woman who was looking after the auction emailed me back and said, &#8220;Great!&#8221; A few days after Leanne died I emailed this woman to check in, acknowledging the sadness of it all as well as the connections, such as ours, Leanne had managed to unwittingly create.<\/p>\n<p>This lovely woman then scanned and emailed me a copy of the program from Leanne&#8217;s funeral as well as the text from Leanne&#8217;s father&#8217;s eulogy. As I read through his words yesterday I wept with profound sorrow.<\/p>\n<p>Then I wiped my tears, finished the task at hand and made lunch. Reading through The New Yorker as I ate I came across a cartoon called &#8220;F.A.Q.s about the Hadron Collider.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Now the only reason I know what the Hadron Collider is is because I read an article about it in The New Yorker months ago. The <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Large_Hadron_Collider\">Large Hadron Collider (LHC)<\/a> is something out of a Hollywood movie. It was developed, essentially, with the purpose of understanding the nature of the Big Bang, and in some way, will attempt to<em> mimic<\/em> the Big Bang itself, if they can ever get it to work. The LHC, its construction, its function and its operation, are astonishing things to wrap one&#8217;s brain around.<\/p>\n<p>So there I am, fresh from a deep cry over the death of my friend, reading this comic by <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Roz_Chast\">Roz Chast<\/a>, cracking up laughing.<\/p>\n<p>The cartoon depicts a brochure with a crowd of booby-looking people gathered together to ask questions about the LHC.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What would happen if I went inside it?&#8221; asks a Gomer Pyle-ish boy.<\/p>\n<p>Answer: Just. Don&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;How many miles of pipes and whatnot are in it?&#8221; asks a Dame Edna-ish lady.<\/p>\n<p>Answer: A bajillion.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;How much did it cost?&#8221; she continues.<\/p>\n<p>Answer: Forty squillion.<\/p>\n<p>And the best one of all: &#8220;If I concentrate ultra-hard, will I ever be able to understand it?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Answer: No.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m telling you, I was laughing <em>out loud<\/em>, all alone, in my apartment, trying not to choke on my food.<\/p>\n<p>It occurred to me that I had just been <em>balling<\/em> and that is when I marveled at the mysteries of Being and since Leanne was a comic genius I knew she&#8217;d approve. After all, her departing words for all of her loved ones and faithful followers was, &#8220;I wouldn&#8217;t want to be in your shoes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Inspiring Message of the Day: There is so much possibility in every moment. Grief is necessary.  Laughter is vital. We are <em>alive<\/em>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dearest Readers, How exquisite and recondite is Life that we can be weeping in grief one moment and laughing our guts out the next? As most of you know I have been blogging of late about the death of my friend Leanne Coppen. 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