{"id":666,"date":"2010-07-10T06:00:10","date_gmt":"2010-07-10T13:00:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/?p=666"},"modified":"2010-07-10T06:00:10","modified_gmt":"2010-07-10T13:00:10","slug":"be-of-use","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/?p=666","title":{"rendered":"Be of Use"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dearest Readers,<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s nothing like helping another person to build one&#8217;s sense of self-worth and usefulness. When all else fails, being of service to someone else will inevitably bring success.<\/p>\n<p>Last night I was at a gathering and as soon as I got there I regretted going. I was uncomfortable and felt I didn&#8217;t belong. <em>What the heck am I doing here?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Experience tells me that there&#8217;s a reason. I could easily have left. But I trusted that if I stayed I would find out why I&#8217;d gone there in the first place. And I did.<\/p>\n<p>But first I needed to become willing to be of use. Instead of &#8220;what am I doing here&#8221;, which is all about Celia, I changed the question. <em>How can I be of use?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I ended up speaking with a young woman who was struggling with some life issues. She was on the edge of something, experiencing high anxiety, and trusted me enough to share her story. I was able to be a listener and a supporter, giving her the reassurance and validation she needed in that moment.<\/p>\n<p>We parted ways. Her energy had totally shifted. And so had mine.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Inspiring Message of the Day: <\/strong><\/em>The more I am healed, the more I am able to help others experience healing. When I find myself back in a self-centered place I will remember that being of use will bring me Freedom and Purpose.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dearest Readers, There&#8217;s nothing like helping another person to build one&#8217;s sense of self-worth and usefulness. When all else fails, being of service to someone else will inevitably bring success. Last night I was at a gathering and as soon as I got there I regretted going. I was uncomfortable and felt I didn&#8217;t belong.&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[453,358,454,816,325,817,455],"class_list":["post-666","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-being-of-use","tag-healing-path","tag-helping-others","tag-inspiration","tag-inspiring-message-of-the-day","tag-motivation","tag-service"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/666","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=666"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/666\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":667,"href":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/666\/revisions\/667"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=666"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=666"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.celiamcbride.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=666"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}